Memories start from the day we open our eyes on this planet. We hardly recall any of our memories of our infant age, the age spent with our parents. They teach us to walk to talk and so much more but these we can hardly remember because nature has it own say and that we can feel it when we raise our offspring. The unconditional love, faithful care, the hardship faced. Then we start to socialise make friends in school, have fun, play games, share food, secret crush and the list goes on.
Next phase of life is the college life where memories is defined by our actions. Some bunk classes and make them as their memories and some by attending classes. Sometime a group of friends and sometimes a single special person. Those time spent in canteen, acting of studies in library, and infinite pulling of legs all these small things make such a huge difference in life.
Then there is the next phase of life that's the phase where we actually work and earn for living and then we cherish all the days past in life. Then career growth settling in life becomes the aim. And we go through so many memories in the path. We meet so many people few become our loved ones and few leave us forever. The loss of a person can only be felt when you have shared ur live care feelings with them. Then working hard to make a name climb up the ladder, nurture a family be good parents. Guiding the children. All these things become our memories.
But memory is like a two faced coin. Some people suffer from the day they are born, some due to country, others due to fate. Some are not privileged to have parents and some are born in such poverty that they hardly have something to cherish. Some children are bullied in school and some are abused. Some people find it difficult to study and some hardly afford studying. People don't have a success life. People don't find their true soul mate. Misunderstanding, anger, terrorism, fear these things fill our life in such a way that hardly there is any breathing space in life. Some people are not blessed with an offspring.
We always tend to remember the hardship faced, recall the bad memories of our life but in the process we forget that we had equally good memories to cherish on. "Only in a dark room will a candle prove its true luminance, with the help of a matchstick, oxygen and a human hands". Memories can be altered good memories can be cherished all it needs is some humanity, some help, hope, faith and self belief. Time will turn on you like anything else in this planet so when your time is good don't buy Rolex or a Royce rolls, share your happiness. And while facing worst days keep faith don't expect anything from anyone except time because it will change and when it does you help those who are going though a phase that you have been through.
The Universe Bends to the Lord Shiva
I Bend to Lord Shiva🙏😇
